[sammiefields2512]

Hey there

I've had man boobs all my life and have had trouble getting into relationships with women. I just wanted to know, how do you feel about a guy with man boobs?

Does it put you off? Would you give him a chance if you got along with him? Or is there no chance in the world you'd go out with a guy with man boobs? How important is it for you to be with a guy who has a strong, masculine frame?

Please do answer the poll and get back to me with your thoughts, it'd really help. If you haven't ever seen man boobs on a guy, then how about just a regular fat-guy?


Thanks,

Sammie

[lizzardb63]

What am I MOST attacted to? Well a chizzled guy...LOL...but let's be realistic here, his charm and his sense of humor is what really reels me in. Looks aren't everything to every girl and I know quite a few girls who prefer a bigger guy (with or without man boobs!) I know plenty of guys who are a little "heavier" and still extremely good looking. What I think matters most is how you treat a woman and how you make her feel. If you make her laugh and make her feel special, that will show more than any other aspect.

[acerousme]

Im a personality girl..I love a guy that can actually hold a conversation. My man has...moobs...and the only time I was ever turned off by them, was when he shook them and sang "My milkshake brings all the boys to the yard...."

[Ashlee T.]

and the only time I was ever turned off by them, was when he shook them and sang "My milkshake brings all the boys to the yard...."

Yep...I laughed out loud. Still am. lol

[sammiefields2512]

Im a personality girl..I love a guy that can actually hold a conversation. My man has...moobs...and the only time I was ever turned off by them, was when he shook them and sang "My milkshake brings all the boys to the yard...."

lol, ok well I'm pretty clear on THAT front. No woman will ever see ME doing that with mah moobs haha

What am I MOST attacted to? Well a chizzled guy...LOL...but let's be realistic here, his charm and his sense of humor is what really reels me in. Looks aren't everything to every girl and I know quite a few girls who prefer a bigger guy (with or without man boobs!) I know plenty of guys who are a little "heavier" and still extremely good looking. What I think matters most is how you treat a woman and how you make her feel. If you make her laugh and make her feel special, that will show more than any other aspect.

A very valuable insight, thank you.

[acerousme]

I'm just keeping it real...lol. Seriously though...Lizzardb63 is right. Make her feel good and it won't matter.

If they have a problem with how you look, then she isnt the right one. THEN shake the moobs at her singing "my milkshakes"...

[DreamP346]

I am a very physical person. I would not go out with somebody who was fat and out of shape. My philosophy is that you don't have enough respect to take care of your body, you are not right for me since I like to eat healthy and stay fit.

But man boob are mostly inherited. If you are obese, then its the obesity that is the turn off, not the man-boobs. Do I think man-boobs are attractive, absolutely not. Truthfully, I think them as ugly as my flabby and stretch marked tummy. I have them through no flault of mine, but doesn't mean I think them beautiful. To me, man-boobs are at the same level of attractiveness as a beer gut. But that didn't stop me from dating, falling in love and marrying a man with man-boobs. Just because that one physical aspect of a person is unattractive, doesn't mean the entire person is. None of us are perfect. There will always be something about yourself and your partner that is not what you would like it to be.

[jns]

From what I have seen, having man boobs is not really a problem as that is not what most women are using as a major criteria for determining who is good bf material.

[Hugo-B]

OP, can you describe your body type? If you are overweight bear in mind that the size of your 'moobs' is directly proportional to the amount of body-fat you have, just like a women's breasts get bigger when she gains weight.

Flaxseed, zinc and calcium will slightly lower estrogen and reduce slightly the size of man boobs, and conversely alcohol will contribute to the problem.

Diet and exercise are the key to damage control here. Worst case scenario is surgery to have the breast tissue 'lipo'd' out.

[Bug_Lady]

My bf has this problem. When he was a little overweight it wasn't very noticeable. However, over the last couple years he has lost 35 lbs and it's more noticeable now. His stomach is smaller but his I think is actually an issue of too much tissue. It's called gynecomastia. I personally do not care (obviously - we've been together for 3.5 years) but it really bothers him. We have talked about getting the tissue removed when we have enough money. I think the men are probably more self conscious about it then women are noticing it.