[hanny44]

Post # 2 about my boyfriends porn addiction and leaving me sexless. Last night, we went out to dinner as an early birthday present for me. It was a great time, and I was REALLY trying my hardest to look sexy and get him to notice me. I was talking a little dirty to him (which I never do, theres a big indicator I want sex..) and licking the salt off of my margaritas glass a little seductively. Then, we went home and I lit the fire place, went upstairs and made a bubble bath, followed with candles and a bottle of wine..

Heres the funny part. I felt like I was being very obvious about wanting a romantic night with him, but apparently I'm too quiet about what I want. He sat downstairs in our bedroom and played video games and watched porn while I was in the bath waiting for him. He said he was going to come in the bath and after FOURTY minutes of waiting, I just got out and went to bed.

First of all, he is my boyfriend of a year and a half and we are both young and lively. I have NEVER denied sex with him, why the hell would I now? Is he scared to come on to me? I don't think it's necessary for me to literally spell out "I WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU." He knows I do, he's just being extremely stubborn and then when I ask him why he rather watch porn than have sex with his girlfriend he says "I dont.."

I'm sick of being lied to and told I'M the problem..

Please help, I need advice..

[Element]

Leave him. You know the saying "If there's problems in the bedroom; there's problems in the relationship"? Well it is true.

[kittehs]

You are not the problem, he is (and you will not be able to change him). If he'd rather watch porn than be with his girlfriend, he has issues. Leave him before he brings you any more heartache! There are so many guys out there who will care about you and actually want to be with you. There's no reason a young woman should be in a sexless relationship...count your losses and break up with him so you can find someone new and enjoy yourself