[Livelaughlove]

I did read her post. However, I am confused as to why she would make a post as if the issue is a current event then the next day mention that it was hasn't accured in a few months.

To me that is a red flag.

In any event I hope all works well with you. Leelee

live laugh and love

[OG612]

The blow up with her girl might have been a little more recent than that, but it's coping with a loss. Not everyone can deal with it when it happens and need some help.

OG

[Devo]

... you have to mediate and understand both points of view.

hope this helps
Live laugh and love

Meditating won't solve this problem.

Mediate, not Meditate I read it the same way.

Although I do believe what Livelaughlove said is quite on the money here. You need that support group behind you at all times. Whether it is family, long term friends or some sort of social network (a club, a legion etc.). Knowing that there will be people behind you no matter what will help to set your subconscious at ease so that it can focus on sorting out other things in your life.

As for your boyfriend, fights will happen and you realise this, and that is a big thing for a young person to understand. But I am going to make a general assumption and you can deny or confirm if you like, but you might have been cutting your friends out to appease your boyfriend. Your relationship was on the rocks and you would turn down events that you had previously agreed to attend with your long term friends, in order to spend more quality time with your boyfriend. This in turn annoyed your friends, and made your boyfriend become more secure and confident in the relationship.