[stressed]

Just be careful because he can always use his computer to email or a phone to call or buy a new sim card that he hides. It all depends on how much addicted he is and what this person means to him, plus why he did what he did. You dealt this in the right way but you still have to be careful for a couple of months. You have to discuss with him as he might just say "I've stopped, it means nothing to me" but it can still be in the back of his mind. Remember that you CAN live without anyone, so don't let that be the reason for you to tolerate any kind of cheating.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

If you feel you have to compete, then taking the "strong" approach is the only way I guess.

Sounds like you have to "fight" for your love, to ensure he remains yours. That's a hard thing to live with the rest of your life.

[mye_mye]

he must be carefull at this time, if i caught him again texting with other,

he will be sorry!..
for now, i can feel that he is sincere..hopefully it will continue till the end..

[mye_mye]

do you have any idea why guys are like that?
though they are married still they want to have relationship with other women?
he was telling me he loves me that much because for all the girl i'm the one he choose to marry, and that text is just a fling.,and not serious..i'm curious why some guys are like that..telling you you are the only one but still texting another girl.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

They were bought up to have all they wanted, have fun in life.

They can not be committed all their lives.

They love you, and are happy that your in their life but, wont settle down to one woman, wanting to have fun and be married, still feel macho.

They miss something in their life, they feel nailed down, not friends still and laughter and fun, and intimacy, rather, the word "married" they can't have freedom.

They are childish and don't understand commitment.

They love attention.

They think that they can have what they want, there is on harm, they married you.

They had two women before and can't get over that thought, the power of it....

Lot's of reasons.

[mye_mye]

they are unfair...seems like not fair, everyday he was checking my phone..maybe he is afraid that i will do what he was doing.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Maybe also checking to see if you had telephoned that girl?

[mye_mye]

Maybe also checking to see if you had telephoned that girl?

yeah! it can be..hehehe..

checking if im going to contact that girl.

but too late, we've already talked.

[AAA]

This is how my husband started his affair, and also how i suspected it. If you can stop it, before it is to late, it hurts like .