[rcoreyus]

There is no point in continuing a relationship with someone you can't trust. You need to either completely forgive and trust, or you should leave. Either is a reasonable thing do to, but if you keep looking for problems you will eventually find them.

[stressed]

"if you keep looking for problems you will eventually find them" that is a fact.

You know what, I didn't think about it at all this weekend and we've had one of the best weekends ever. It's not that I had to try to ignore it, I just didn't feel worried or negative at all. Some words said here helped me listen to the 50% of my thoughts which said "things have changed a lot, appreciate what you have today after all the changes".

Dealing with death recently also changed me a lot, made me appreciate everyone and everything for the moment and not for "how they could be" or "what they did". Trust is a big word, some times we trust people by instinct, other times we choose to despite certain doubts. I didn't think there would come a day when I would trust him as much as I do these days, because despite this thread I do trust him more than I ever have all these years.

I don't know about forgiving, there are things that I can't forgive but decide to put them aside or "put them in a box" as I say. If or when this box becomes overfilled with such things then there won't be a point in going on.