He made a huge mistake, but finding HIS reasons for why it lead to that might help give you a start to where y'all need work. Where was intimacy lacking? Was he having feelings of inadequacy? A midlife crisis doesn't get him off the hook, but it may help you understand what he needs to work on.
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There isn't an excuse for what he did, valid or otherwise. It's more trying to follow his thought process. What lead him to that? There is nothing you did to deserve that disrespect! Relationships take work from both sides, but that doesn't mean you did something that caused it, or that he had a reason that justified it.
He made a huge mistake, but finding HIS reasons for why it lead to that might help give you a start to where y'all need work. Where was intimacy lacking? Was he having feelings of inadequacy? A midlife crisis doesn't get him off the hook, but it may help you understand what he needs to work on. -
Definately agree OP you are not to blame and this is what I was referring to as well, finding out, other wise, it's hard to move forward...He made a huge mistake, but finding HIS reasons for why it lead to that might help give you a start to where y'all need work. Where was intimacy lacking? Was he having feelings of inadequacy? A midlife crisis doesn't get him off the hook, but it may help you understand what he needs to work on.PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!Comment
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