[techlettekween]

Ok, me and my fiance have been together for a long time. We have sex regularly (almost every day, if not every other day) and have never had problems. About a week ago I noticed pain during intercourse around the entrance of my vagina (only on the right side). It was VERY uncomfortable. I thought that maybe it was due to my underwear rubbing a raw spot or something of that nature, so I have given it a week to see what would happen. It has not gone away. Regardless of the pain, I have still ben continuing with sex until my fiance noticed that I was sounding and looking like I was in pain during sex. He told me we should wait a few days, not have sex, and see what happens. (which is what we are doing as of now) I am very frustrated. I pulled up a mirror and looked at my vagina to see if I could notice anything different about it. It looks normal. Nothing out of the ordinary. I did notice that the inside of the entrance of my vagina on the right side was slightly swolen (as the clitorus and vulva area typically is if you allow a lot of dryness and friction during sex). The spot that I seen is where the pain is coming from during sex. It feels raw upon entrance. I am not sure what is wrong with me or what to do. I recently had my pap test and know for a fact that I don't have STD's. I always test negative for everything, so I know that this is not the issue. If anyone can help me, or give me any kind of sensible answer, advice, or treatment options, I'd really appreciate it. I would hate to have to go to my gynacologist just for her to tell me that she doesn't see anything wrong. If I can save money, it's all good! Thanks for reading! I hope someone, anyone, can help me!

[LanaBear]

You may just be irritated. Have you changed soaps or detergent lately? I agree with your fiance that the two of you need to abstain from sex for a week or two, even then, take it slow and make sure you are wet enough. A bottle of lube wouldn't be a bad choice to have on hand. If it starts hurting in the slightest, you need to stop. Continuing when you are in pain is only going to aggravate it further. If after another 2 weeks or so, without intercourse, it doesn't clear up, I would head into the Dr.

[techlettekween]

thank you! i will take your advice. we dont use lube... so that might be the issue. i really appreciate it! You know, almost 200 people have viewed this post but only you responded. haha i appreciate it greatly. The rest of those losers are just *******s apparently... or weird pervs. lol Thanks again!