I am 21 years old. I have been having sex for 3 years with little to no pain. Recently I've been involved with a new partner after we have sex I have superficial pain in my vagina for hours. It doesn't hurt during intercourse but sometimes I have to stop him once the pain starts, usually after I orgasm. It hurts to the point where I avoid having sex and its making him feel unwanted. After sex I usually have to pee frequently and it hurts very badly when I wipe down there it feels as if something is torn however his size is similar to the men in my past. When I look at it in the mirror it appears very red although I don't look at it regularly so I'm unsure if this is irregular. It also seems t have skin tags of some sort around the opening. I just had a pap test and I was checked for stds and it was negative although some of my cells were abnormal so I will have to return for a colposcopy. Please tell me what this could be or what could be causing this!
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It could be a UTI and he may have been irritating your bladder? -
Well I had my urine tested at the hospital after the first occasion this pain occurred and it came back perfectly fine. I don't present any of the typical symptoms of a UTI either. I should also mention to everyone that I did have a pelvic ultrasound (internal and external) at the hospital and it also came back perfectly fine, as did the same tests/scans I had about 8 months ago.
From my reading online I guess it kind of sounds like Secondary Dysmenorrhea...but I can't find a cause for it or a way to fix it
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Ahhh sorry ladies, wrong place!! New here, still learningWell I had my urine tested at the hospital after the first occasion this pain occurred and it came back perfectly fine. I don't present any of the typical symptoms of a UTI either. I should also mention to everyone that I did have a pelvic ultrasound (internal and external) at the hospital and it also came back perfectly fine, as did the same tests/scans I had about 8 months ago.
From my reading online I guess it kind of sounds like Secondary Dysmenorrhea...but I can't find a cause for it or a way to fix it
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