Which one of the two do men remember more? Their first love or the person they had sex for the first time?
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I remember both very well, same guy acually. But Im a girl so idk.[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]☮“I am convinced that the women of the world, united without any regard for national or racial dimensions, can become a most powerful force for international peace and brotherhood.â€☮[FONT="Comic Sans MS"][SIZE="3"][COLOR="DarkGreen"][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT]Comment
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I have no idea as im guessing that all guys will give different answers. As BC said, I remember both very well - and im girl. I could imagine my ex being able to remember more his first time, whereas my partner now would remember his first love. (moi
) I guess its the preference, or what the guy in question feels is more worthy of remembering.
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Ideally they are both the same. I'm a guy, and they were almost the same for me. My first love and I were doing sexual things but decided not to have actual sex and then we broke up. We weren't married at the time, but my first time sex was with my wife (unfortunately we "broke up" too). Both things were very meaningfull and well remembered.Comment
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Remember first love more than first sex, but as a 51 year old guy, both are ancient memories.I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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I think that, that is a very good question, one that alot of "young" ladies would be asking themselves, as they usually had "sex" with the guy believing that he loved her, right?
But, your asking "memory" and I think they remember both equally... But, the heart will always remember the first love more, in my opinion... as the experience of sex, is a high, the first love is a "heart" is touched and the memories are alot more, than just one night.
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I said the memories are ancient, not me. Well, to these youngsters maybe a little bit.I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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Personally my first love holds a deeper place in my heart than my first sexual encounter, I think it totally depends on the person though.
I had sex with my first boyfriend but I only believe I have really been in love once in my life and that was much later and I still love him now even though we broke up six years ago. I rarely think of my first sexual encounter thoughComment
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