[Texinator]

Unless you're with some superficial twit whose opinion shouldn't matter in the first place, I think men typically find women much more attractive than many women can understand.

[GetTheDudeDotCom]

Unless you're with some superficial twit whose opinion shouldn't matter in the first place, I think men typically find women much more attractive than many women can understand.

I agree. This is where you need to get in touch with your own sexual vibe again and start attracting men. Contrary to popular opinion, a man will be attracted to a woman who's less than perfect physically if she's has a healthy attitude about sex and can feel her sexual energy. Sexual confidence is what you're going for.

Oh, and most men don't have perfect bodies either. So if you are open minded, you'll find men who are too.

[GentlemanGhost]

I don't think men would be turned off by your body. However, I do think some men would be turned off by the idea of a single mom with kids. I only speak from experience and listening to other men.

There is this one guy at work who HATES kids. He won't date a women who has kids.


I will also add that most men look at facial features first. A large majority of women have at least decent bodies....

[jr]

I'll only date MOMS or MOTHERS. Won't consider dating single women that aren't a parent. Why? Several reasons..... Mothers get "it" If you're not a mom and I'm a very proud dad, then you don't get "it". Moms aren't as hung up on the little things in life that don't matter anymore. Call me weird, call me whatever you want....I think stretch marks are A) a natural occurence as part of child birth, and B) rather sexy! It means you're a mom!

Are there things that each of us would like to change when it comes to our bodies? Probably. I'd like to be less hairy, have bigger leg muscles and tighter abs. The reality is that I'm not willing to invest the $$$$ to have the hair removed, not put forth the effort necessary to increase the size of my legs and not willing to work as hard as I need to in order to create a six pack.

MOMS ARE SEXY! YOU'VE GOT "IT", YOU KNOW IT NOW GET OUT THERE AND FLAUNT "IT" !!

[LanaBear]

Awww - Jonnie - that post made me smile.

[jr]

I love to make people smile!

[Awoman2]

If you don't appreciate yourself first, not likely anyone else will.

Do what you can to be the best you can be, but do not be intimidated by what other people look like. It is true that there are some really shallow people out there but there are also those who can appreciate you the way you are.

Have a little confidence; it goes a long, long way.

[WildChild]

are men still attracted to a woman if they've had a child??

No, That's why no women have more than one child.
Ever.