[moomin..20]

Hello there...
My story begun this summer during holidays in Spain, when i met this French guy... we met at a nightclub and we ended in his apartment, a few hours later. He was my first complete sexual relation and it was really nice. In the morning i was ready to leave without wanting to keep any further communication with him since i knew i would be there for only a month. But he wanted to exchange numbers and facebook accounts. From that moment we talked a bit on fb but we didn't say anything about a date or something. The days went by and i met him again by chance at the same nightclub. I went to say hi and left..but he was telling me to stay with him, and so i did. This happened again for another night where i saw him dancing with a girl and when he saw me he came to talk to me.
Now, it has been almost two months from this and i still can't get him out of my head...we haven't talked for a long ...
But on the other side i don't want to text him because he hasn't talked to me all this time.
so should i give up my ego and tell him something or should i wait until (and if) he remembers me??

Thank you

[WildChild]

Why not just say hi on facebook? A casual, how are you?

[idon't]

Why don't you spend Christmas in France?

[moomin..20]

I thought of sending him a message in a few weeks , when it will be his birthday...
And for the trip in France, i might tell him that i m indeed planing to go to Paris for new year's Eve

[sourpuss]

Do you want to keep contact with him? Do you want it to go anywhere? Or were you just liking the attention when he was contacting you?

[moomin..20]

of course i want to keep in contact with him, and he is one of the reasons am planning this trip to Paris...I hope he ll be there and meet!
But generally i feel a bit strange, like i am afraid of giving into him and into this situation... and i feel that he is also kind of afraid to get into this strange condition
with the distance and all that.
From my part i am willing to meet him whenever i can! But i don't have the courage to show him all that i could do for him, of fear that he would be scared or something like that...
and i also keep thinking if it a "relationship" can beeb founded when you have such distance problems!

[Diamond2000]

I think you should go ahead and contact him.....what do you have to lose. if you don't your gonna always wonder.

[Allie602]

It is doubtful that he sees you in the relationship mode but someone who he likes well enough to have sex with when it is not too complicated. If that's what you want then go or it. If you want someone who is really into you look elsewhere. If he is making no effort to be with you, calling you over and taking you back to his apt is no effort at all, then make no more effort towards him. If your looking for something more sustained let the guy pursue you a bit then you know is is at lest halfway attracted. Men say they like women to approach them and that's ok for casual thing but chancy if you are looking for something serious. The relationship starts with you pursuing him. When a man feels a chemistry with a woman he will work hard to get her.

[moomin..20]

well i think i could go for a casual thing now, since we are far away, but i would like to talk about it and tell me that is nothing more.
I don't mind to get into this situation since i don't have anyone else right now... and maybe time will change my mind and see things more clearly.