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  • xCupcakes
    Member
    • Oct 2010
    • 12

    Well, an update of how things went.

    We did meet up today, but a small problem. I just don't know about this right now... maybe it's early.

    He was pretty late (30 minutes late...) but he did apologize and had a legit excuse (he was in South Florida with his parents on something called "half iron man run"). I did ask him twice if we could just push it until tomorrow when I get off of class and had more time and it wouldn't be stressful for me since I had to go to work and he kinda kept pushing that he could make it or what time tomorrow. I was stressing about my job because the time kept getting tighter and tighter. He had to ask me what street the Starbucks was off of even when I mentioned the location twice the night before. I felt alone waiting for him ... dressed up nice casual (nothing too revealing, like I was advised by you guys)

    When he finally got there. I was excited, nervous in a good way, felt very warm for some reason. He did buy me coffee, the usual I get when I go with my parents and he didn't make any reactions or moans about the price. He got a black coffee and told the guy "I want a black coffee, black as " and he made a loud noise about it being strong where the creamers were at. I told him "You asked for black, it's gonna be black silly".

    He does seem to curse a bit much ... like a bit much and I asked him nicely "Do you normally curse this much?" and he was like "Well, yeah ... it's america" and some other things about how video gamers get mad and I was like "I'm not in a video game..." he was about the loudest person there, even with his curse words.

    We ended up talking about a bit ... he offered to take me to work, after I hinted it, heh, he followed me home, waited outside while I got my uniform on and took me to work, which was nice... came inside, got a coke and talked some more for a bit ... hugged me and said good bye. Later came back and ordered food... haha.

    It was nice meeting him. Maybe if he asks me on a date, I'll get to know him more? I seem more mature then him, only because I'm serious about my schoolwork and job. I do enjoy his company and he does make me giggled over his stupid words... but still... shouldn't he be a little more... ya know, mature a bit? He's 22. He's testing to get his GED.

    He does want to do something again with me tomorrow when I get out of school before he goes to his test again ....

    I don't know. I'm kinda wanting to back off and wanting to go farther and get to know him more.

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    • xCupcakes
      Member
      • Oct 2010
      • 12

      Sorry for double post, but I can't seem to edit it... he seems a little calm when I talk to him on the phone.. is he trying hard to show off or something?

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      • annalove11
        Junior Member
        • Nov 2010
        • 8

        As far as the clothing goes, you're going for coffee so be yourself.
        **removed link** - mod

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