[spurzzz]

Yesterday there was a good looking girl on the train who flirted with me, making eye contact, playing with her hair and glancing over whenever she could. Great!

But what is not good is that the train is full of other strangers!

So what could I possibly do to speak to her or even get her phone number? What could I possibly say to a stranger that for all I know may not even like me but just spotted a bogey on the side of my nose......

Oh and from a females perspective, what cues do you give off to let a guy know you like them? A stranger that is....

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Exactly that...She gave you the cue, yeah it's hard on a train full of strangers but a smile back of recognition surely you did that?

From there, you should grab her as she leaves or as you leave, can I call you? And have your mobile ready to punch in the number, holding the phone up so she can see it

Yeah well I'm bold, i handed my business card and said call me the rest is history...

[jns]

And maybe it was just flirting. Another day and another time will come. Sometimes flirting is just teasing someone you find attractive with no thought of going further.

[spurzzz]

Women always expect us to make the first move lol its no wonder so many men are single haha

I hope I smiled back CW im not too shy when it comes to things like that, its just I get put off if people are watching me or if the other person is shy because that tends to give off mixed signals

And of course there is the aspect of it just being harmless flirting but I think one would know if someone likes them or not just through their body language. There is also it seems a fine line between making a good or bad first impression. You can easily put someone off or give off the wrong signals if you delay any action.......

Why do we humans make everything so complicated!?!?! Brilliant stuff though....

thanks for your comments everyone