Okay so I just really need to share this with somebody that doesn't know who I am. There is a boy in my class who I've liked for a couple of months, and we kissed on New year's eve, and he said he liked me back. I am so happy!! But he's never had a girlfriend before and he said he wanted to take things slowly. Is that bad? My friend said he's not the kind of guy that would commit, and that he'll just ditch me later. I don't think he really is like that though.. But now that we kinda have something going on, I don't know what to do! I get so nervous when he's around but at the same time I get so happy! We talk a lot at school, but what else should I do? Does anyone have any tips ?
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Think about it, honestly your friend is able to predict the future?
If he says he'd like to take this slow and you are hanging out and you are "happy" let him lead.. Nothing else you should do.
He knows you like him, he likes you, smile as much as you can around him and laugh with him in conversation...Just be you mam...PUT A LITTLE [B]'LIKE'[/B] IN MY SOUL! -
Take each day at a time and just BE.
How old are you two?
I'm with CW - let him take the lead and lean back. Think about it like a dance - he moves forward, you move back; he moves back, you move forward - but let him take the lead. Savor and live the moment.Comment
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Thanks guys! I'll just try to go on as we're already doing then, and wait for him to like make the next move or something x)
Caterpillar: We're both 17 ^^Comment
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Scary being 17 You are just starting out off course you are confused
Always let the guy make the next move and always ensure it's a move you are comfortable with, if not be assertive and say NO..
That's the Mum in me hey Cat
PUT A LITTLE [B]'LIKE'[/B] IN MY SOUL!Comment
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