[d4lly]

hey

ok need a bit of advice.. so the story is:

well i was working at the casino (as a contractor) and my brother parked the car somewhere and i couldnt find it! so i asked the concierge for help to find my car coz i couldnt get hold of my brother and needed to get home since it was late. and yeah he walked around the carpark with my and helped me find it. so a few weeks later i was working there again over the weekend and he was there working too. i left my bag at the cloakroom and when i get home i find he left a card in my bag saying "for lost cars call -number here- " thing is i have a bf. but there is a chance i might see this guy again when i'm working so might be awkward lol do i write back and say that or just ignore it lol i know this sounds like a stupid question haha!

[katherine.g.patterson]

I think that next time you see this guy you should just simply approach him and thank him for the card and for his help but let him know you have a boyfriend and that is why you did not call. It should not be awkward.

[jns]

I agree with kgp. Thank him again for his help and let him know you have a bf. He waited a few weeks so as to not pressure you, but he saw something in you that made him contact you again. Someone has to take the first step, and he was the one. If he is a gentleman, he will not pursue if you give him any reason not to.

[rcoreyus]

In some ways this is the easiest and most polite way to reject someone - it in no way reflects on him, it is just that you are unavailable.