[Elsie]

Hi,

I live in a small town where everybody knows everybody's business, and there's a bloke who gets on the same train as me who keeps giving me the eye.

He's always very well turned out, and I think he may be quite a catch. The only thing that holds me back is his reknowned strange behaviour.

For example, once on the train as he brushed past me he whispered, "What colour are your knickers?" Also he is regularly seen being loutish in the town centre, and once threw a packet of bacon into the local mosque.

Apart from this he seems perfectly normal (when sober) and I think I quite fancy him.

[rcoreyus]

Doesn't sound good. The packet of bacon (if the story is true) suggests someone who is intolerant. If his only words to you had to do with the color of your underwear (I'm writing from the US), it suggests that is what he is thinking about you.

Normal - WHEN SOBER?!?

So, whats good about this guy?

[anonymouswhitefemale]

Hahahaah.

Well, like many women you know what you want, and what you want probably isn't good for you at all - but hey, why not go for it and wait until you're 30+ to learn your lesson?

[sTyLeRock]

So.. he just brushed past u and asked you what colour your undies are and walked away? this before or after he knew you were feeling extra friendly for him?

Sounds like a sleaze to me.

[Aithneu]

He's always very well turned out, and I think he may be quite a catch. The only thing that holds me back is his reknowned strange behaviour.

For example, once on the train as he brushed past me he whispered, "What colour are your knickers?"

I know technically you're not supposed to be attracted to guys like that, but honestly he sounds funny and charming in his own way. He's the type of guy most girls would be offended by and turn up their nose, but if you're openminded as you appear to be give him a shot. I always thought it was hot when a guy was a little outrageous, I don't know about you. lol, think about it- chances are if you get a little drunk with him you could end up going on an adventure of some sort. Good luck with Mr. Danger! lol