[kerapetse]

Ladies pls help a sister,im dating this guys who is head over heels with me,he's too much into me & it irritates me.He calls me 13 times daily,send emails,sms & demands to see me everyday after work.He even asks me to sleep at his place 3 times weekly excluding the weekends,what bothers me is that he likes to kiss me & he doesnt do a very good job of that not to mention that he cums early when doing it & im left high & dry for more.He seems to enjoy sex more than i do & im never fully satisfied to be honest.Ive told him about it & all he says is that im too good thats why he cums early everytime,this realy irritates me to a point where i ended up cheating for more satisfaction.The guy i had rocked my world i must say & was bigger()than my man,now i cant stop thinking about the guy,he knows how to satisfy me by all positions.I feel that i should be with this other guy because he makes me happy honestly,but im scared of hurting my man.What should i do?

[ShannonG]

I think if you are irritated by your man now, its only going to get worse. If I were you I would let down your partner now. You say you don't want to hurt him, but you have cheated on him already and it sounds like you are going to doing it again, if he fiinds out the hard way it will hurt him so much more.

[sTyLeRock]

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u don't want to hurt ur man.. U CHEATED ON HIM.

and just because he couldn't get ur jollies off? lame, pitiful excuse.



There were many many more options available to you then just cheat with someone who could possibly satisfy you.


Give your man the common decency and tell him what you've done.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Seriously, I have a question? Why does he ask you to sleep over there three times a week but (NEVER) weekends?

I just re-read your other posts, remembering the "sister" bit.

Is it because he has his "daughter" on the weekends?

And is this the guy that you said you were dating because he had money but then you realised you loved the other one?

The cheating, he knows about you told him?

Best clear that up before other's state what they think, I think.

CW

[Guest]

if your not happy, just leave............... dont live a lie.
as for cheating. GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR, no comment i'll only get in trouble, LOL

[CHANDLERS WISH]

JWB LOL... I sooo miss that word of yours....

The threader is 23years old, she states and you are right, "don't live a lie", but even if she told "her current boyfriend", what happened, it is still a lie because you don't want to really be there right, or else you wouldn't cheat? No Morals?

As for no comment JWB, get into trouble?

JWB wanted to say, grrrrrr $#(%$R^#, always leave first, don't cheat, it's not fair on the other person...There's no excuse etc, etc. No Morals, blah blah and he's right.

Actually, i was thinking about "cheating" not me personally but the thought of the other person not knowing? And, making love "not knowing" that's a horrible thought don't know where the other person has been really...

Just took me back to 20's when my ex-boyfriend did that to me eweeee...



CW

[Ashlee T.]

Don't cheat. If you're not happy, stand up, be a woman...take responsibility for how YOU feel and leave. Perhaps this is just how he is. don't fault him for it, because there is someone for him that will suit him. You don't. On top of that, you don't appreciate this man....and from what I see in your post, what DO you like about this person? He doesn't kiss up to your standards, he cums too quickly, he's not as big as your ex......and I'm sure the list goes on and on. Truth is, you don't seem to truly care for this man or have deep feelings for him. So move on. You don't want to hurt him? Then leave.

[2morrow]

I personally would leave the boyfriend for the better lover. Obviously, this is now where your heart is. Why waste anymore time on the guy that isn't doing it for you. And besides if you're already cheating on him, hey it aint working anyway. Yes, he will be heartbroken, but in the end you and he will be happier.