[CC22]

My friend is dating this man. She has been for the last 3 years. They broke up 3 times and got back together. The first time he broke up with her he tried to date another girl. She showed no intrested in him and after that she forgave him and gave him another chance. He still talks to her. When he goes to hockey games he goes and talks to her during the intermission. My friend hates her. He still talks to her. She's told him that if you love me like you say you do you'll stop talking to her. I don't know what to do. Does anyone have any advice?

[WildChild]

Yes, she needs to quit complaining - that makes her looks insecure. Tell him I will see you later and go find something else to do. If he's interested he'll come to you, otherwise better to find out this isn't going anywhere sooner than later.

[Karma3]

Hmmmm, he would rather talk to this other girl during intermissions than her? How humiliating for her. The next time he came back to his seat after an intermission, I would be gone! Then see who's humiliated!!

[Ashlee T.]

Time to hit the road running....and stop allowing the disrespect.

[Karma3]

I agree, it's pretty cut and dry....

[CC22]

She's not at the games. She doesn't go to the games during the week because she has to work. She goes to the games on the weekend. If he does talk to her it's when his gf isn't there. I believe his friend's gf told her this and was lying because his friend's gf doesn't like him and will do anything to make him misreable.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Then everyone should be staying out of everybody's business.

If he is attentive to your friend, on the weekends at the games, and in private, and treats her well, shows love, then it's not disrepectful anyway to "have female friends", she's already been told that that girl wasn't interested in this guy at all, so nothing happened, they are just friends. What you can't have opposite sex "friends?".

Tell your friend to stop listening to idol gossip, if she can't work out herself if her man really loves her and gets upset over this sort of thing, then that would explain 3 break ups and it will be the same with the next boyfriend.

Tell her to ask herself honestly, if she feels that this guy loves her, simple.

CW

[CC22]

I know he loves her. The break-ups didn't have anything to do with his female friends. It had to do with other stuff. Females are evil. Not saying all females. They want want someone else has. She will not listen to gossip that someone else has. It's going to drive her crazy.