[acerousme]

and my girls...

Im so VERY confused right now, and I know you guys can help me.

Lemme see here...
okay

Shawn and I are no more...we broke up.....the jerk cheated on me....talk about a confidence boost!

Now Corey...he's nice, but not really my type, and I told him that...and he still doesnt get it!!! ITS FRUSTRATING ME...

Rob...I've liked Rob since gradecschool. We were talking tonight about one of my possibilities...and I mentioned how Corey didnt know what color my eyes were...and Rob explained that Corey is color blind...but then he piped in...."Your eyes are Hazel, and in the sun, they're green".
I've never melted so FAST in my LIFE....oh, did I mention he plays guitar?!...AND can sing? AND act?????
...but he's got a girlfriend.

annnnd then there is Trevor....He makes so much sense. I was talking to him the other day, and I told him I didnt understand why Shawn did that to me...and he said "I dont understand why the sky is blue"...and then went "wait...HE got pictures?"...."AND NOT ME?"

And J...he is the biggest sweetheart ever. He makes my heart melt with everything he says. He is a big teddybear, and I love how sweet he is. He is so willing to do ANYTHING for me...and it kind of scares me...only because J is so different from every other guy.I've never met a guy so ready to do whatever it takes to make me smile. (Not to put you all in a group...but hes so sweet, he HAS to be from another planet...)....and ya, his name is J....BEST NAME EVER!! (I can remember it)

do you guys think Im just setting myself up for a bunch of hurt??
I mean, Rob has a woman, but I dont get him....he knows EVERYTHING about me....and flirts with me SO much...

What do I do about Corey? How can I get him to back off??
And Shawn...he wants another chance...and now Im so unsure...
And Rob...should I tell him I have feelings for him?
What about Trevor? He just got out of a relationship, and we've talked for years...but Im not sure how he feels about me.

AND J...where has he been all my life??? lol...and How can I get him to notice me?? Do you think he already notices me....or am I just a friend?

HELP ME....
**come and find me when you have answers...Im going to hide under a rock...seriously...where did all these guys come from all of a sudden?**

[Little]

Shawn - How long could you possibly have been dating for you not to tell us? :P And for him to cheat on you in the same amount of time? There's a statue of limitations on forgive and forget.
Corey - I've found that being completely heinous helps.
Rob - Has a girlfriend. Don't be that person. If you think that being cheated on will wreck your self-esteem, think about what being the second choice will do.
Trevor & J - Cool your jets and let things flow.
In fact, just cool your jets and let things flow!! You're getting yourself all worked up, and for what? A passel of boys? You'll be much more attractive to men if you play it cool (even if inside you're pulling your hair out. We all do it )

[acerousme]

Shawn and I hung out EVERY day...he would wake up, and call me, before he went to sleep, he would call me, on his lunch break, he'd call me...after work, he'd go home, shower, and pick me up, and we would go out for supper, or to a movie...then back to his house to talk, or cuddle, or play video games! He even planned a "romantic night"....which was NOT romantic, but he kinda tried...he bought me an orchid! And a really pretty set of earrings....and I wont go into details....lol...BAD ACE...BAD!
I was so mad when his SISTER told me he was seeing this other girl. I came home, and cried, and when I asked him about it...all he said was "ya, so..."......WHAT?
Little...you should have heard me rip him a new one...you probably would have laughed.

...cooling my jets....getting worked up again....**tear**

[Guest]

Little has it right I feel, don't get yourself all worked up over these fellows, cool it

But, there would be nothing wrong with throwing a couple oh subtle hints in a Lady like fashion to let them know you are interested in them or lets say attracted to them.

[acerousme]

LOL...My first pic is Trevor...but he's really complicated....we're talking now...and he's going to come up and see me....
apparantly Jay is seeing someone....ouch.

I GIVE UP....Im going back to my rock!

[tasha_correa]

I know that it's hard to follow Little's advice, but do the best you can. Try to act cool while you are talking to Trevor and (like Little said) leave the ones with girl friends alone becaue you know the way it hurts to be cheated on. Go with the flow, vent on here to make things a bit better, and every one will try to help you. We are here for you and will console you as best as we can. Breath in deep through your nose slowly to calm you, and let it out through your mouth like you are blowing all your frustrations out. It really does calm you down.