Okay so I'm having a little relationship trouble and I know no one on here will really know the relationship like I do but I figured it wouldn't hurt to get some outside opinions. Here is a little background: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years, we hit it off great and after a few months he asked me to move in with him. I really didn't want to at first because I was scared so I kept asking him if he was sure and he said yes. So we have been living with each other for a long time. We get a long real well until he has mood swings that come out of no where and then I have to try and figure out what is going on ( he is worse than any girl I have known ). So just last week he went to Miami for spring break with some of his friends. So I acted like I was okay with it because I couldn't go because I still had class. When he was there he sent me text messages saying "I miss you already" soon after he left and "The only thing this really proves is that I miss you when you aren't around" on the 2nd day. 3rd day I didn't hear from him and the day he came home it was like he wasn't real happy to see me. So it went on for another couple of days. He hadn't really touched me nor said much to me. When I asked him what was wrong he said nothing, so I figured I would wait it out a few more days. I did and it didn't get better. So I asked him again because I was starting to get sick to my stomach because I knew something wasn't right. He finally admitted that he was still upset about something that happened a month ago and that it was fine he would get over it.
Okay so a month ago I had gone out with some friends and half way through the night I didn't tell him where I was, when I should have. But on the other hand he used to go out often and I would have no idea where he was, so I can understand that he was worried but why would he still be thinking about it? I didn't cheat on him but I guess maybe he is thinking that in the back of his mind. And when he was in Miami I didn’t go out at all, just stayed with my school work and had a few girl friends come over. So I guess maybe he thinks I might have done something when he was gone? I don’t know anyways back on track...
So when he came out with that I did the best I could to help him to not be upset about it and what he ended up saying was that he needed some time alone. and at first I was okay with that, we live in a one bed room very very small apartment so I can understand him wanting to have some time to himself, except that he started saying things like he can't do anything with his friends with out me because I always get upset. Which isn’t entirely true because a lot of the times he would invite me with his friends and I would tell him no but he would beg me to come along.
So I spent the night at my parents and he was sending text messages to me like nothing happened. When I told him that I was stressed out about money and possibly loosing him, he said "don’t cry! your not going to loose me, im going to get a job soon after I graduate so we will be fine don’t worry! I’m sorry sometimes I let my mood swings get the better of me" I was totally confused after that! Then today I asked him what he wants to do as far as him wanting alone time and he said "I think maybe you should stay at your parents house during the week and stay with me on the weekends" he also said he wants me to leave all my stuff with him at the apartment and for me to keep the key. I was extremely upset but I told him I wanted to make him happy and he said "I know you do this makes me happy, think about not seeing me all week then u finally do, I mean if I get a job elsewhere do you think im gona leave you here? f no" so it’s like he wants me away from him but once he gets a job he wants me with him? I just don’t get it; I don’t know what to think.
Okay so a month ago I had gone out with some friends and half way through the night I didn't tell him where I was, when I should have. But on the other hand he used to go out often and I would have no idea where he was, so I can understand that he was worried but why would he still be thinking about it? I didn't cheat on him but I guess maybe he is thinking that in the back of his mind. And when he was in Miami I didn’t go out at all, just stayed with my school work and had a few girl friends come over. So I guess maybe he thinks I might have done something when he was gone? I don’t know anyways back on track...
So when he came out with that I did the best I could to help him to not be upset about it and what he ended up saying was that he needed some time alone. and at first I was okay with that, we live in a one bed room very very small apartment so I can understand him wanting to have some time to himself, except that he started saying things like he can't do anything with his friends with out me because I always get upset. Which isn’t entirely true because a lot of the times he would invite me with his friends and I would tell him no but he would beg me to come along.
So I spent the night at my parents and he was sending text messages to me like nothing happened. When I told him that I was stressed out about money and possibly loosing him, he said "don’t cry! your not going to loose me, im going to get a job soon after I graduate so we will be fine don’t worry! I’m sorry sometimes I let my mood swings get the better of me" I was totally confused after that! Then today I asked him what he wants to do as far as him wanting alone time and he said "I think maybe you should stay at your parents house during the week and stay with me on the weekends" he also said he wants me to leave all my stuff with him at the apartment and for me to keep the key. I was extremely upset but I told him I wanted to make him happy and he said "I know you do this makes me happy, think about not seeing me all week then u finally do, I mean if I get a job elsewhere do you think im gona leave you here? f no" so it’s like he wants me away from him but once he gets a job he wants me with him? I just don’t get it; I don’t know what to think.
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