I am sure there are a few out there that have been in a relationship where the spark is no longer there and hasn't been for awhile. Anyone have suggestions on how to get it back? I am been in this relationship for over 2 years now, he works a ton and our hours don't mix, so there is a major problem with "dates" which is the only thing i know to get back the spark. I have not had the passionate spark with this guy that I have had with past bf's but I am 35, single, no kids and never married and really think this relationship could work if I can get the spark back. I find myself fantacizing about other men and not him even though he is great in bed and gets the job done, but getting in bed is the problem and looking for more than getting the job done. Anyone know what I am talking about?
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Sounds like you guys need to make time for each other.
Letting the spark go and it just not being there are two different things. You can always plan a nice romantic weekend, that might help. Ask him to take a full weekend off work in like two weeks, and just go wild with it. Even if it is staying at one of your houses, and just you know renting amovie, and having anice dinner at home. Buy some new bras, and panties, and look hot for him!
That might work... -
Thanks for advice
Thank you for the advice chica, I will definitely try it!Comment
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