[glorysun]

Today while I was spending sometime with my bf I realized that I'm becoming to clingy. I only let a few select guys into my heart be it friends or my bf because I've been hurt by too many guys. I'm not even sure why I'm being clingy right now but I want to overcome it. I think that I know part of the reason on why I'm being to clingy and thats because he shows me affection and when I was going up my mom was never very affectionate towards me and so I guess its just something that I crave or that I missed. Is there any way to stop being so clingy towards my bf?

I hope that this made sense.

[imported_kaylar]

divert


Some chaps get scared when a woman gets
too clingy.

If you're conscious of it, you can take diversionary
steps. If you notice you're always reaching for him,
start to grip your own arm. If you notice your
always so intense, force yourself not to be.

Just be conscious...and soon you'll fall into a
pattern.

[Guest]

I can relate

I am going through the same thing with my bf... I too didnt have any attention growing up.. I as well feel that i am being too clingy because that is what he tells me.. I dont think i am too clingy.. even though i feel that i need a lot of attention that i never got.. i just think that i have alot of affection to give and he isnt as affectionate as me.. i would consider that as well.. im not afraid to have time alone and I think that is what seperates clingy with more affectionate..