[hopethisworks]

ok. well me and my boyfriend have been together for about 8 months now. he refuses to go out into public with me. he says its because he just doesnt lilke to go places, but everytime one of his friends calls he can't get out the door fast enough. i dont know what to do. he plays softball on the weekends, every single saturday, but he refuses to let me come and if i do come to the field he comepletely and totallllly ignores me, instead of speaking to me he sends me text messages from aross the field. i am really strating to think he is just embarrassed of me.

[happy ending]

it certainly does sound like it - also are you he doesnt have someone else, and maybe being seen with you would raise too many questions. i would probably dump him - but good luck to you.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

First thing to understand.........

If he feels embarrased for any reason and doesn't want to show you off as his girlfriend? Then, he has tickets on himself, it's called being "superficial", he has an ideal person in mind whom never comes along, and he wakes up one day and remember's the one he let get away, who's soul was what he fell in love with hense why he was there for start with.

Tell him big is beautiful, I am beautiful work it out buddy cause there are plenty of fish in the sea, and a sailor is around the corner...

I noted that you were viewing Apendix as an option to take.

Weather you have a few pounds you don't like about yourself, make sure it's "you" who doesn't like it... because in this life, we really live for ourselves and love ourselves and then let that love shine out so that all can see.

His actions are in-excusable.

And, you have nothing for him to feel embarrassed for.

8 months and he can't be a man?

Find one whom can.

CW

[Hopeless Dork]

Sweetie it sounds like he is up to no good, either he is playing the field and doesn't want anyone to know he has a girlfriend or is seeing someone else. There is no excuse for ignoring you when you are right there at his game and texting you instead. If he is getting ribbed from his buddies about having a gf so is playing it cool, he is much too immature for you to waste your time on.

It hurts but if he is only going to share time with you away from everyone else its going to limit the life you have with him. You deserve someone you can go run to when you see him, not duck in a corner like you have something to be ashamed of, you don't. What a jerk he is.

[happy ending]

yes, maybe he does have a perfect woman in mind, but do you really want to be with someone that embarassed of you. it sounds like you need to work on yourself a bit. do you exercise? take care of yourself, treat yourself as precious. you are certainly worth it - find yourself a man who knows that. you need a MAN not a BOY! and tell loserboy that!

[erelx2]

You deserve better, love.
x

[AlleyWay]

He has someone else plain and simple. That's like having a new car but you don't want anyone to see it. Sometimes you have to trust that feeling in your stomach. A female should be wined and dined but this guy is treating you like your not worthy of showing off. Find you someone who will.