[Mommy2Eryn&DJ]

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Hi guys *FOR THOSE who dont know I'll give you a little background I have 2 kids from a previous relationship of 6 years my current guy and I have been good friends since highschool and basically I'm his first serious adult relationship he actually waited all this time (until i broke up with my ex ) to be with me...we were friends before so we are like best friends soulmates whatever you may call it, have been together for a year and were living together until recently we started having problems and he moved out but we're working on making the relationship better*. He practically lives at my house because hes there everyday but anyway fast forward to yesterday…it was my best friends bday…(shes his friend too) and well I thought we would go over her house and celebrate but clearly he had other plans…he drove my car so he had taken me and picked me up from work…normally we txt through out the day but yesterday we didn’t text at all which I didn’t sweat I know he’s been having some issues(not involving me--) and I was like well maybe he needs some time to chill out(I KNO THE PROBLEM HAS HIM FEELIN DOWN), well he picks me up doesn’t say 2 words 2 me then he drops Himself off at his house and hes like “well your going to your friends bday right? ill just talk to you later” and at this point im like weirded out like why would he take himself to his house(he hasn’t been stayin there in a while hes been at my place) so then I was like ok we kiss goodbye(im still confused) , and I go home.. then he emails me(I noticed when I got home he had left his cellphone …dead in my room on the floor which hes never without a cell even when we've had awful fights thats his means of communication with EVERYONE whos important to him) he tells me in his email “can you come pick me up before you go to your friends and take me to my sisters” and I said “ok” because even though I thought what happened was weird I just thought he didn’t kno how to tell me he didn’t wanna go so I was like “ok ill pick u up and take you” when I do, he doesn’t say anything, then he asked me where I was going and I told him then I asked him to come and he said no, then we get to his sisters and he like rushed out of my car and I haven’t heard from him since( cell phone its still at my house, he didn’t even ask me to bring it to him which is weird) …I have no idea what I did wrong…or what happened? I came home at like 11:30pm and his cell was still layin on the floor he hadn’t even thought about coming over to get it (he has a key to my place) ....n i still havent heard anything from him today...im worried...help?

[Iseulda]

Bring his phone round to his house and use the opportunity to ask him what's wrong.

Maybe he has misunderstood something, maybe it is this other issue you refer to, maybe something new. You won't know until you ask. If he blanks you or says nothing then I suggest you go home and send him an email asking him to call you when he's ready. Tell him you're there and you really have no idea what the problem is but if he needs to take a few days then OK, you just want to know he's OK and will talk to you when he feels he can.

That's about all you can do. You can't force him to talk to you. I guess if he stays away more than a week or so you can assume something has happened to make him want to end the relationship. I hope it doesn't come to that.

[Mommy2Eryn&DJ]

Idk, we have a concert that we have been both DYING to go to on Friday...and I have the tickets and its making me sad that this is happening a few days before this supposed to be "awesome day" .. I havent done anything wrong..so idk why he's not talkin obviously he doesnt want contact with the any1 because he left his cellphone my place..which if he was mad at me.. he would never do he would have gathered his stuff and just took everything from my house before he picked me up from work and took himself home....i think im gettin the end of the stick for something i havent done or have anything 2 do with..then im also wondering is he mad cause i went to my friends 21st bday and he maybe wanted me to be in a rut like him??? idk....

[WildChild]

Sounds like something really has him down. How is your relationship with his sister? Maybe call her and just say, "he's really down, he's not talking, I'm concerned". See if she knows what is going on?

[Mommy2Eryn&DJ]

i kno exactly what has him down...and its reasonable...but I dont understand why not talk to me about it??? I have no idea whats going on..I want to ask his sister because we get along pretty good but im afraid he might not like the idea...?