[Peewee61]

I have been talking to this man for over four years who I meant on a disabled person company van. This man, respected me at first and was always on the phone calling me. Things changed when I invited him to my house after knowing him for a year and a half. I found out that this man private was no bigger than my pinky finger and he was only able to do oral sex. When into the second year I had to take over the responsiblilty of two minor grandson and one of them came to live with me all hope left for our relationship. For the pass year and most of this year I notice that the calls stopped and I never saw this man anymore, but he still called and said I love you.

I man also refused to give me his address for the entire four years that I have known him and last week I attempted to get some answers from him to no avail. I called one morning last week and he was on the phone acting as though he was in bed with someone moaning and groaning on the telephone and he would not say anything. Okay I hung up and called back and he hung up on me. I called back a third time and he picked the phone up and was cunning to someone on the phone. I've asked him on several occassions, do you have another woman and he would lie and say no I have enough handling you. I know that this man is lying to me and the love and desire is gone. Women beware of a man like this, he might make you lay down your religion, don't let him do so, get your own identity and keep it clean.

[WildChild]

PeeWee I moved this because it has nothing to do with sex. I think it is more appropriate in Relationships.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Peewee, I am not sure what your question is? If there is one, or whether you are stating that it's taken you four years to move on from someone that you realise only now or perhaps all the way along, was lying.

The moment someone doesn't hand out a phone number, you know something is wrong, to spend 4 years with such a person? You know that you have to learn to grow in yourself and respect yourself more, and know your worth.

I can not understand a guy with a pinky, has so much confidence to act as if he's having sex with someone when you ring, nor how you can hang up and then ring again after hearing that.

You say your a Grandmother so that means your mature...

Don't be used by any man in life... Respect yourself and know that your important and only date those whom give you their numbers, whom invite you out to their place and who respect you as a person....

Sorry you feel that you had to remain in this for so long.

CW