random question, i've just been thinking quite a bit - over the last couple of weeks my boyfriend and i have been arguing a lot and i'm beginning to wonder if i even like him? i definitely love him, i care about him deeply, i genuinely do, i'd never want any harm to come to him and i do get that strange 'warm' feeling inside when i think about him,.. but at the moment i'm not sure i like who he is, how he is acting, who he has become?.. i dunno, i guess i was just wondering if it is possible to love someone yet not like them, at the same time??
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[COLOR="DarkOrchid"]"Life’s a game but its not fair
I break the rules so I don’t care
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Yes, it's very possible. The question is what will living with it do to you? -
YES it is possible very possible! The other question is will he change or will your dislike for him change..for instance I love my best friend and but dislike the decisions she makes in her life. Recently I have called attention to her lack of judgement in hopes she will react positively and put her best foot forward. Now because she is just my friend and not my lover I don't have to like everything she does....but if you want a future with this man and you do love him...his actions attitude or lack of will affect your life. Just because you love someone doesn't mean you have to be with that person[FONT="Book Antiqua"]Everything I'm not makes me Everything I am[/FONT];)Comment
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Exactly. I was with my ex for over 6 years and after 3 years we started having a lot of troubles. Mainly because I didn't like his lifestyle and thus began to not like him. I loved him very much, still do. But in a way that I want the best for him and one day hope that he's happy. But not ever in a way to be with him again.
The one thing it did to me though was create a ton of frustration and resentment towards him and our relationship. If you don't like the person he is, if you're not attracted to him anymore and it's just not there, then for the both of you, you should move on.Comment
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