[ThexMrs]

Ugh... This is so compliated. We talked a few nights ago. I think it was Sunday. Yes, Sunday and he was saying that I put a strain on our relationship. Excuse me? No... You did that. So I let him have it. I've never yelled at him, heck... I've never yelled at any boyfriend but I really gave it to him. I told him he was being a d____ and that his behavior was BS. I also said that if he didn't knock it off I wouldn't talk to him anymore. He practically had a seizure. He said, "Okay okay. We'll talk tomorrow and it will be great. We'll have a great conversation. I love you." So I said, "Good. I'll talk to you tomorrow." I got off of the phone and then we talked the next day and it was smooth as could be. Now though... The conversations are still great, haven't fought once but I'm still rearranging me schedule a bit for him. Today was the first day that he texted me asking if I wanted to talk on the phone and I said no. He never responded after that. Then tonight when he would normally call he didn't which was upsetting at first but I understand that he was tired. Or so he says... Lol. He again said he loved me and I didn't return it. I just said goodnight. Not because I was mad but as long as I keep telling him I love him I don't think that I will ever move on. I don't know... I'm working on it.

[caterpillar79]

What happened to your "no contact"? (just asking, I know it is difficult.)

I think the more you show the man that you care, the more his BS behavior comes out and takes you for granted.

[ThexMrs]

Well... Haha. I talk to him when he contacts me. (Which he does everyday and twice a day) I haven't found a way to not talk to him as much. If does affect my mood which is unhealthy. Sigh... He has some sort of power over me. Yes, that's unhealthy too. I'm getting better at the mood affecting though. We didn't talk tonight and I'm fine. Just took me a few minutes to be cool.

[caterpillar79]

Then, that is an achievement! I am very impressed at your positivity, Linds. One step at a time, and you'll get there.

Just waiting for him to initiate is a good start. Let him reach out to you. He's the man. If you have time, read Act Like a Lady, Think like a Man ( I also have an e-book - from a great GF) *winks (are you thinking what I'm thinking?)

Hey have you started reading the one I sent? lol...

[ThexMrs]

Thank you.

I'm really trying here.

Actually, he was/is always the one to call me. I very rarely called/call him.

Yes, I am thinking what you are thinking. Bring it!

I haven't because I've not had the time as of yet. I just got home tonight.