No doubt that once you ask, you already know and are only hoping for people to confirm what you believe, or to give you any sliver of hope or reason to stay.
Do you just not like being taller than him when you wear heels or does he ask you not to wear them? I ask that because it could some real insight to his insecurity or controlling nature.
Me and my bf are virtually the same height but I love high heels , and he loves my style and with them on I tower a good 4 - 6 inches above him. He could care less about it.
When you say you have to avoid him when he's been drinking that is a huge red flag unless he only drinks once a year. If he drinks more often then that and you have to avoid him because he may become abusive, you'd have to know in your heart its not a good match.
He doesn't sound like a good match for ANYONE right now, as it sounds like he has some major growing up to do. Once a man finally realizes that impressing his friends is not more important than his personal happiness, its only then that he is ready to let a female into his life.
Until then you are always going to play the background, be there when he's lonely or needs sex but the rest of the time you'll always be second to what his buddies want to do.
Most guys realize after college that the buddies are still awesome, but can't provide the nurturing companionship of a committed girlfriend and so they sacrafice much of the testosterone fueled hanging with the boys nights to spend time with someone that genuinly cares about them and realize its actually more fun that way.
If this guy is bossy, tells you what shoes to wear to make HIM look better...gets drunk and becomes abusive, wont put the xbox controller down long enough to hear about your day.... you wouldn't be losing a whole heck of a lot by walking away.
Do you just not like being taller than him when you wear heels or does he ask you not to wear them? I ask that because it could some real insight to his insecurity or controlling nature.
Me and my bf are virtually the same height but I love high heels , and he loves my style and with them on I tower a good 4 - 6 inches above him. He could care less about it.
When you say you have to avoid him when he's been drinking that is a huge red flag unless he only drinks once a year. If he drinks more often then that and you have to avoid him because he may become abusive, you'd have to know in your heart its not a good match.
He doesn't sound like a good match for ANYONE right now, as it sounds like he has some major growing up to do. Once a man finally realizes that impressing his friends is not more important than his personal happiness, its only then that he is ready to let a female into his life.
Until then you are always going to play the background, be there when he's lonely or needs sex but the rest of the time you'll always be second to what his buddies want to do.
Most guys realize after college that the buddies are still awesome, but can't provide the nurturing companionship of a committed girlfriend and so they sacrafice much of the testosterone fueled hanging with the boys nights to spend time with someone that genuinly cares about them and realize its actually more fun that way.
If this guy is bossy, tells you what shoes to wear to make HIM look better...gets drunk and becomes abusive, wont put the xbox controller down long enough to hear about your day.... you wouldn't be losing a whole heck of a lot by walking away.
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