[CHANDLERS WISH]

Just remember, sweet, she may not be emotionally attached anymore, but she's still married...

There is a reason why a relationship breaks down and in that, a woman is very emotional, that being she desperately craves attention, wants that hug, needs it, needs to feel loved as she hasn't for so long.

Be careful... not to be that "rebound". And, purely smile and say things that may make her acknowledge your thoughts but no action, until she makes "action", that being leaving the situation she's in and walking on her own two feet, alone, knowing who she is and who she was, then you can enter

[newhere808]

My only caution with "stealing" someone would be that you really never know what your getting, as your basically walking into something with that person when they are looking for something "better". Having been in a similar situation once before, I can tell you that it's not easy constantly being held accountable for the follies of the guy your "stealing" from and being regarded as the reliever of stress can get extremely exhausting emotionally. It all depends on the lady and her situation though, I would just say proceed with caution.

As far as the whole work place thing goes, honestly it depends on the workplace in my opinion. I don't think it's a terrible thing, though it can be a potential minefield.

[Futureboy]

Just remember, sweet, she may not be emotionally attached anymore, but she's still married...

There is a reason why a relationship breaks down and in that, a woman is very emotional, that being she desperately craves attention, wants that hug, needs it, needs to feel loved as she hasn't for so long.

Be careful... not to be that "rebound". And, purely smile and say things that may make her acknowledge your thoughts but no action, until she makes "action", that being leaving the situation she's in and walking on her own two feet, alone, knowing who she is and who she was, then you can enter

The "rebound" cost me 5 years of my life. And she was sepperated and living apart


"knowing who she is and who she was, then you can enter"

I think this is the point to seperate the attached and unattached, regardless of their exact marrital status

Thanks, glad it's all just theoretical it's a mine field

Fb