[BasketCase]

#3 had his chance. Drop him. That leaves you with 4
#4 Might be getting distant due to the fact that he isn't interested and doesn't want to hurt the friendship. Thats what it sounds like to me. Down to 3
#1 is out if you and hum can't see each other. It's sad but long distance relationship usually dont work. Unless one of you is willing to relocate. He is also out. Same for #5
Down to 1.
#2 and you need to have a serious talk. Get together and see where it goes from there.

But all of this is my point of view based on the info I have. I cant tell you which one you care about the most or which one is best for you. Just see how things go and have fun. Who knows prince charming could walk into your life tomorrow and sweep you off your feet and you may forget about all of these guys (one can only hope) lol. Good Luck

[crazykkcatkate]

thank you all so much for your advice.
Yes you are correct when you say there is aspects from them all that i like but there only small parts of them, not them as a whole.
i think what i am going to do is try to slowly part each of them.
i have got a history from each of them so good times and some bad and yes if they want to stay friends so be it, i will be happy to but as far as a relationship goes with any of them, its time to cut my losses and move on.
Prince charming is out there somewhere waiting just for me!!
Thank you all xxx