Ive been having a lot of sexual dreams about my ex, and of course, her realising she has made a mistake and coming back to me, and being happy with me, and the rest of one of my dreams, a song about moving on from things, played over and over again, and I woke up with the same song playing over and over in my head. Preety creepy stuff. It happened again the next night, same song playing over and over
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Happy and Taken! -
I attribute these kinds of dreams to your subconscious trying to "move on". You felt intense rejection from her and dreaming that she comes back to you is your minds way of feeling "okay" about things.
It's clear from reading your posts that you've been spending a lot of time thinking about her and analyzing your relationship and most everything in it. That's your mind...not your heart. Your heart misses someone you cared deeply for, that's normal. Your mind is doing the rest. And your mind is probably exhausted from all the thinking about her and the negativity this has inflicted into your life.
Consider the dreams a good thing.....perhaps your hearts way of telling you it's time to move on. Now, your mind just has to be willing to accept that. -
Search "Neon Wilderness" by the verve on YouTube. Listen to the one with
an album cover as the video, the band sat on the grass. It's a great songHappy and Taken!Comment
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