[tufchik05]

So I met my friend about five months ago and we started as friends then decided to be bf and gf and now he said he started having feelings for and it scared him and he is not ready for relationship bc he doesn't really know what he wants out of life yet. Well we are best friends and we still sleep together. He tells me he loves me and i love him but he sends so many mixed signals and he knows he hurts me sometimes so i don't know if i should just wait or if i am just wasting my time. Please give me some advice....

[BasketCase]

How old is this guy. If he is young then you can't expect to much as far as commitment. Just have fun and try not to put to much pressure on him until he is ready. And try not to overthink the little things. You can't force a man to be ready for commitment. If he isn't then you just have to accept that and move on. But for now have fun and don't rush him to much. And there is not need to rush yourself either

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I think your sexual side of things together are getting in the way and it's scaring him

Fix that problem first and then see where this goes.

You never waste time with someone, it's a life lesson, a learning experience and a connection, whether it is "the one", only time will tell.

The fact you were friends for so long first, could really be the reason why he loses his erection by the way, not just because he goes fast and can't help himself.. He's excited at this new venture with you both. Don't tell him off, or put him down, keep warm and fuzzy over it all and give it all time..

CW