[Vasana]

I have a friend who has been a strong extreme feminist since school days. She never realized how it affected her attitudes and behaviour. Now she has failed many relationships with men, and had a divorce. She have met this nice guy and they were to marry. But after about an year, that guy got frustrated, and things getting worse, they are going to break up sooner or later!

I just want to help her be successful in her life. But she have to be rehabilitated. What can we do for her..

[darcdante]

It's hard to comment on this without knowing her specific behaviors that you're labeling "feminist." There are a great many feminists in the world who have had very loving, successful marriages. You can be a feminist and still be the kind of woman that most men want to be with. Most men these days don't want a completely submissive woman. They want a woman who can take care of herself and think for herself and won't rely on the man for every little thing. However, men also like to be relied on - not all the time, but sometimes. You friend needs to know that an independent woman can be very attractive to a man, but it's obvious she's doing something wrong, so you need to identify the bad behavior and seek to correct that specifically, rather than her feminist mindset.

[Mes T]

I second the above post, we need to know more specifics about what kind of behavior she is exhibiting.

"Feminism" means striving for equality between men and women, so as of now I'm not sure what you mean by "extreme feminist."