[CHANDLERS WISH]

Lushley, use this thread to get stronger

Let us know how you are going, what happened, what's happening, so we can stay with you on this, you don't have to do it alone you know

JadedQueen, I did stay, for about a year, in the bedroom, him in the loungeroom

But, you are right, once you get past the emotional abuse/blackmail, you stand tall and in that, you get your selfworth back, independence and knowledge of who you are and in that, you can do anything.......

CW

[rhiannon34]

I was also in an abusive relationship, and had been threatened with him taking my son ever since I was pregnant. I was so happy the day he finally packed and left, and was so ready for it to be over and him sign over custody of our son to me, that I gave him all our land, property, and everything. And he griped about me keeping most of the furniture. It was worth it still, to get rid of him.

Your children are angry that ya'll split up and you are the convenient one to direct it at and blame. I'm sure they will get past it at some point.