[Tinkerbell777]

my bf and i been dating for 3.5 years. he was so sweet at first but now hes just bossy. he is also very lazy. i feel like he only uses me for things. i feel more like a servant than his girlfriend... but he tells me he loves me and always has his way of getting out of this subject. our sex life went downhill ... i feel like he uses me to empty his sack cause whenever we do have sex its not as passionate and after hes done he goes to sleep. is this a sign saying its the end? that hes bored of me? what should i do? please help!

[angel wings]

i would just sit him down and tell him how he makes you feel on all levels...........u shouldnt feel like a servant for one and if he loves you like he says he does then he will listen to what you have to say instead of trying to get his way out of the subject....

[rcoreyus]

Why are you still with him?

[lala82]

I consider that your relationship is unhealthy. If you feel that you are a servant for your boyfriend I doubt that he loves you and respect you enough. I think that if you feel like a servant is because you have allowed him to treats you like that.

Love yourself more than him. Do not allow he treats you like. Do not continue to spoil him anymore. If he really loves you he will realise how bad his attitude in the relationship is. Otherwise, leave him. I am sure; you will find someone, who treats you like a girlfriend.

[WildChild]

If all he wants is a masterbatory tool, get him a fleshlite.
Sit him down for a talk and be prepared to walk if you don't get the response you need.

[Tinkerbell777]

thank you guys so much! <3

[Ashlee T.]

I can assure you, you deserve better.