[oxy-moron]

Get book called cupids poison arrow. It will explain why you become disenchanted with your current lover/husband.
It will also explain why the ones you cheat with wont make you happy for long either.
If you are looking for something more permanent then try the suggestions in the book.
If you are just interested in casual sex- then why get married at all.

[RainbowCandy]

I understand how you feel. Ive been with my man since 4.28.09 & we have been engaged since 10.19.10; well i have cheated a few times & knows... i dont understand why i do it, but i cant seem to be faithful either so i know how it is like.