[WildChild]

Its good that you have school and work. Focus on those and on being with family and friends. See if you can build some new freindships too. Don't forget to take care of yourself; eat well, exersize, buy your self some flowers, soak in the tub by candle light with soft music playing. Treat yourself lovingly.

[oxy-moron]

Stay strong- any guy who would cheat on his family will ultimately cheat on you when the time comes.

[ayushi daswani14]

he took away your virginity forcefully..that is so disgusting.. but somehow you stayed with him even after this..you deserved a lot better..and that is what GOD wanted you to see..take all this positively.. everything you went through will obviously make you stronger then before.. and now you might soon have a guy.. who will love you with sincerity and devotion and will respect you at the same time.. so dont be depressed ..just take this time to groom yourself for the better person to come.. and be a better judge now.. a person who has been disloyal once can be the same again.. a person's basic nature never changes.. no matter what they say.. so..cheer up girl.. enjoy life to the fullest.. and soon the man of your dreams will knock at your door..and love you like you wanted to be loved since ever..
"when god takes away something form you.. he isn't punishing ..he is just leaving you empty-handed to receive something better.." ..all the best

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Sweetheart,

Look in that mirror what do you see?

Walk around the parks, and take note of the beauty of nature, because that is what you are...

A beautiful flower, that someone tried to poison however, you blossomed, and now you are ready to flower, all on your own.

CW

[Venera]

Thank you my dearests, I appreciate all your help.

Just recently my sister said that she saw him with another girl in the train. She described him to me, however she said that he was with a cap and as I know, he doesn't wear a cap. Whenever I saw him and if it was cold, he usually wore a hat. But maybe that's the way he wanted to hide his face if suddenly he saw me in the city. That day took all my strength again after my half day of recovery. Although I'm not sure yet if it really was him because my sister said he was hiding his face and looked nervous after seeing my sister. And the thing is that, she didn't wear her glasses that day so she couldn't see him very clearly, that is, if it was him or someone else. And she tried to look at him closely (but it was impossible) and to recognize any familiarities so it seemed like she was staring at him.
I don't know if it was him or not, but if it was him I think I even know who that girl was with him. I also got a call from him just next day after I found out about his third child. He was talking as though nothing happened, but I tried to talk without any interest. But my sister called me later and told me whatever she saw. After that, I couldn't even concentrate on my studies because everything that was coming to my mind was the scene, him with another girl.
After that I was trying to understand what was that that was torturing all over inside me. And I think the fact that he found another girl, not even his children's mother but some stranger.(( I hope I'll be alright in at least a month because I don't want to have this kind of life where something always seems suspicious and at the same time to feel unhappy.

P.S. I'm sorry for my long post, but I feel better after I telling things that don't give me a life.

[WildChild]

Darling, it doesn't matter if he is with another girl or not. He is not the man for you. He's already blown it, multiple times . Forget him and anything he may or may not be doing.

[Venera]

Darling, it doesn't matter if he is with another girl or not. He is not the man for you. He's already blown it, multiple times . Forget him and anything he may or may not be doing.

Yes you right.
Now I just have to forget about him. I'll do my best to do so and hopefully, I very much hope that it will work because it is difficult to live with these feelings and memories..(

[karennicholls]

i am so sorry, first of all that this man raped you!!! That is terrible. But after that you are still with him? Darling that is not right. He clearly doesn't respect you, even taking the rape out of the situation, if he is lying to you about ANYTHING then you should not be with him because little lies can turn to big ones and relationships are about honesty and being able to trust the person you are with.

You will find it hard to be without him but in time you will find someone who deserves you and this guy clearly doesn't. I'm sorry to be so harsh i am just shocked at this story.
Another thing is that men like this want control over you and essentially that is exactly what you are giving him. And the more you allow him to do this the harder you will find it to walk away and trust any future partners you may have

Good luck

[Venera]

Thank you for the support.