[oxy-moron]

CW, WC and BG all excellent points.
A lot of poor decisions can be made because of subconscious thought process and our insecurities. You cant therefore always attribute these types of decisions to Moral choice.

[D.D]

I kinda understand what you're talking about, i sometimes get mad at the world for turning so superficial, that everybody is now having plastic surgeries for no important reason. its one thing to fix your hair in the morning so that you would look presentable, and another thing to change your whole nose.
there are so many cosmetic surgeries i would like to have, but whats the point? i rather work on improving my inner self than my looks.
but again, plastic surgeries are a tough topic, having or not having a plastic surgery tells us nothing about the person, what we should look at is the reason why that person got it in the first place.
sometimes you go through tough times where you feel so insecure and low. some people like to get a new haircut when they're sad, and some like to get a surgery when having self esteem issues and are in constant depression.
maybe its not the surgeries that made you resent her, maybe its because you found her reasons to be "silly". there must be a reason for her to get these surgeries done, she may have been suffering all that time without telling you, maybe if she told you her real reasons you two wouldve discussed it and found another solution to the problem she was having, something that will fix the problem from its roots.
this is not a black or white problem, with or against surgeries, it has so many particular cases, so many things to consider.
what's important is not to judge anyone for what they do to themselves, they all have reasons.