I also encountered the same old dilemma but somehow, I decided to let him be. He still plays but now he makes time for me. I think what made him realize the value of "us time" is when I stopped asking for it and "begging" for a time with me. I am more busy now and not making the effort to have the time together - now he does and plays in moderation. Reverse Psychology works I guess.
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AsianGrace, have you read the book, "Let's Face It, Men Are $$#%\c$", a book by Drs. Rock and Duncan? They do make certain points and would help you understand men better and will help you cope.
I also encountered the same old dilemma but somehow, I decided to let him be. He still plays but now he makes time for me. I think what made him realize the value of "us time" is when I stopped asking for it and "begging" for a time with me. I am more busy now and not making the effort to have the time together - now he does and plays in moderation. Reverse Psychology works I guess.
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