[Sassy2067]

My "partner" I guess I can call him don't really know what "we" are. We met online 7 years ago met after 2 years and he came to to me 4 years ago. He told me he loved me and he came to be with me. 2 years ago I found out that as soon as he got here he started to find other women to be intimate with because we are not intimate according to him he was like with all women not just me. He was just trying not to hurt my feelings as he is intimate with other women not so much anymore when I confronted him about this he told me I owe you nothing we are not in a real relationship because we are not intimate. All we do is hug and ever now and then a peck on the cheek. We are in a relationship when it suits him. So I give him space and he wants to see me more tells me coming here was a mistake because I don't see him much when I tell him it's because of what he did hesays he loves me and I am the only one for him. I don't know what he wants or what to do.

[Robert42d]

I'm not shure on what to say! It seems to me after seven years you would know exactly wear you stand in this relationship!
It's apparent to me that he's not as commited as you! I think you should move on ... I wish you the very best!!!

[WildChild]

What do you mean by "he came to me"?
Why are you not "intimate" after 7 years?
How old are you and he?

[Pink Champagne]

Sassy!
Why don't you start thinking about yourself?! I sense that he is very selfish and selfcentered, and he is taking and not giving. In my humbel opinion, you need to break it off with him or at least lay down the rules. I would keep him as a buddy, but NOT allow him any more access to your heart. Give yourself some time, then find a REAL relationship with a man that is there for you and wants to please you as much as you want to please him. Good luck!