separating & terrified

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10-23-2011, 01:44 PM

Originally posted by kieran_jane

It breaks my heart to read stories likhese.. I am only 20 and have a daughter and a son on the way and I am completely in love with my fiance but already we have issues with even liking each other.. he has completely different morals and ideas of life and relationships than I do.. I want to spend the rest of my life with him but I feel like I am waiting for it to get better.. reading this makes me think it never will be.
I truly believe separation is best for someone who is unhappy.. life is too short. I personally am too terrified to take that jump.. good for you!

Sorry to hear you have doubts when you aren't even married yet. Guys usually don't change. What are the details of the problem?

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