[gigglez13]

is it healthy to have an ex as a friend with benifits?
my boyfriend n i have known eachother for about 4 years and he was my first time. he was also you can say my frist "real" boyfriend he meet my family and all. yet we have to break up because of some diffultices yet he says he is going to wait for me but he propose to be friends with benifits. is that healthy? i am talking to this one other guy that i think i am falling for. he is so sweet and gental kind and he has just about everything i want in a guy. with my ex is like we have become straingers we dont talk a lot anymore and i have notice that i have been acting like a brat to him. with this other guy i am happy he makes me laught and smile and he doesnt alwayz make me worry we talk for ever and i never get tired with him but idk how to tell my ex about him and that i want to take some time to my self i want to date other guys as well he can date other girls and if it was meant to be then i guezz we will go bck to eachother if not we have to move on. HELP PLEASE!!

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Honey, you owe nothing to your ex, in explanations.

I'm curious over what the "difficulties" were. Nevertheless, he will wait for you? In the meantime give him sex, just casually, so he can get his rocks off, whilst he continues to do what ever he wants

This other guy sounds like a dream for you, just what you need, and obviously what you are after.

Tell your ex, that he is your ex...If he wants to go back with you, as a proper boyfriend at some stage, then you will discuss it, you are not in the game of FWB's...There is no point or meaning to it, thank you but no thank you.

[gigglez13]

yeah you are right..my friends have never approve of him..yet my family only knows him a little i try to cover up a lot and it gets harder every time.. i dont go for looks i am more about personality.. but he doesnt understand my social llife and how he is making me look bad by the way he is.. yes this other guy is so dang its hard to explain since we have been friends for a while but we never stop talking and we come form the same social background and all that.. yeah a fwb's is not worth it whats the benifit?well thank you again

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Lols the benefits are for him, he gets off without any commitment

Go for this other guy, don't look back, past is past for a reason ...

[gigglez13]

yea true true
yes i will go for that guy he is everythin i ever wanted!

[CHANDLERS WISH]

That's all the end and they lived happily ever after

[jns]

Keep the ex as an ex not a FWB.