[bellagirl]

Does anyone believe in second chances?

So my partner had been asking another girl for sex, nothing had happened though, and had been asking her for a while, as he thought we were not doing it him self.
He has come out telling me the entire story, and said he wasnt been himself.

This has hurt me alot,
and has promised me to change and never make contact with her again.

He knows i wont be able to trust him for a long time now, but i dont know whether or not i should give a second chance.
anyone been in a situation like this before?

[Guest]

Go with your gut and do what your heart tells you to do.

IF you decide to give him a second chance, you CANNOT hold the past against him or you. If you do so, it will eat at you like a disease.

In a sense, you have to look at your situation like you're starting over or at least starting fresh/new and going forward from here.

Don't look back, it's history! Don't look ahead, it's a mystery! Live your life to the fullest today, that's why it's called the present!!

[bellagirl]

We have decided to start fresh, though he left the decision entirely but to me, as i was the one hurt through this. I got 3 close friends of mine that arent happy about it, and said i dont deserve to to treated like that, and all told me to break it off.
At times, coz was almost a week ago only i found out, it still does hurt knowing he was asking another girl for sex, and yes, it does eat me away.

Also trusting him is abit hard at the moment, and he knows i cant trust him much for now, but agreed we will work on it. and understands the reason as to why i cant trust him, as this went on behind my back for most of last year.