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  • mzhk
    Member
    • May 2009
    • 82

    wants to meet me? then deletes me? i should let this go but i cant **help** pls

    I know I should just let this go for i have the worst luck in the world. But I cant help but still feel insulted. A few days ago, i couldnt sleep so i took up a suggest of a friend aqnd went on this chatting website? i was going to skip him? but he asks for 10 mins of my time. i was so tired wasnt even aruging like my usual self? so, i caved in and let him talk..chit chatted a few and he wanted to send me a photo of himself? but couldnt. so, i asked him if he had fb? which he cave me the name i added him. In between it all? he gave me his #. I'm usually more alert and careful? i donno how i found myself dropping down the wall. we texted for 2 days? Out of no where hes sooo determined that he has to meet me. i said not yet i wanna know him a bit more. I dont want to end up on the news for having my head burried in one town and my toes in another. he kept pushing saying hes not crazy. but i cant take his word for it...i sitll say not yet..

    maybe i need an out siders point of view to confirmate that i did good.. sigh** well, after 2 days? he deletes me off his friendslist. my question is that did i douge a bullet here? he deleted me off fb. i donno why ive still been heistating abt deleteing the jerks #. i'm not wrong for being paraniod. Wanting to know someone a bit before meeting them is a smart thing isnt it......
  • Bladyn'smommy16
    Veteran Member
    • Feb 2013
    • 618

    Sounds like a booty call good thing you kept your guard up!

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    • Ashlee T.
      Veteran Member
      • Dec 2008
      • 6412

      Online dating sites are dangerous enough..... but meeting someone on a chat for 10 minutes and letting them on your FB to know personal details about you?? Girl...please consider this a blessing in disguise and never ever do it again. You are worth so much more than to put yourself at that kind of risk JUST to feel wanted. We ALL get lonely sometimes... find things to do that are productive in your life, to help you grow and make you a better you. In other words, persevere through the lonely times so you will come out on the other side of it stronger and better. When you get okay with YOU, when you learn to love you and your life...you'll find someone very special WITHOUT having to meet them on a chat room. Please...don't do it again. Consider him deleting you a blessing.
      "Be what you're looking for."

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      • mzhk
        Member
        • May 2009
        • 82

        Oh no no my fb doesn't have any personal information on there . I blocked tags also. But yes I fully agree I found it odd that after 2 days he decides that he has to meet. When I request not yet?he disappears. thank you! I think u are def right on the booty call prt. Also, thank u beautifuldisaster for ur concern. I've deleted his contacts also. He's prob on his nxt "miss maybe"list.

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