[Bladyn'smommy16]

That just might not be her personality not every girl is the same

[james1991]

omg that? i dont understand an i know i was thinking it could be guilt but wasnt to sure, an is there anything i can do to make her more affectionate?? an btw how do u know i cheated??

[james1991]

an i know not every girl is the same but i would of thought she would of been a bit more affectionate towards me

[Bladyn'smommy16]

Your other post said it labeled "cheat"
I said omg because cheating is horrible if you want a healthy relationship you need to disclose all this to her about you cheating or your guilt is gonna eat you alive
You could always try being very affectionate with her but like I said might not be her personality

[james1991]

oh i wasnt to sure wether you coukd see it or not an i knw it is i regret it so much it was the biggest mistake of my life!! but if i tell her she will end it or if she doesnt end it it will i still be as paranoid if she goes out if not worse becasue ill think she will be trying to getme back! i really doont want to lose her

an i am exremely affectionate with her its unreal its always me cuddling her kissing her holding her hand etc.

[Bladyn'smommy16]

Well she will find out because you feel so bad I believe you will eventually tell her if not shell probably find out. But if she finds out and you kept that from her she is more likely to leave you so you need to tell her sooner now than later
From what your telling me shes probably not that affectionate I know that may hurt your feelings but its not really something she can change my husband is the same way

[madlionly]

1 you need to tell her you have cheated on her and see how she feels about that. 2 she my not be that tpy of girl that likes to be all up on her bf. every women is different and every women has there own ways of showing there man they love them.

[x.st.angel.x]

Women can sense this sort of guilt. I wouldnt be surprised if she doesnt already know. One thing i dont get is if you really love her as much as you say why did you cheat on her?

[pink124]

I think your in a catch 22 tbh, you say you 'love' her yet you've been able to be with someone else so you need to ask the question of do you actually love her? its a bit hypocritical to say that she's in the wrong for not giving you attention and being all over you when you have chosen to be all over someone else.... it could just be her personality or it could just be a relationship that just isnt meant to be... you both need to sit down and calmly have 'the talk' both about what you both want and where this is going... theres no point wasting your life being in a relationship where neither of you is 100% comfortable and happy ... thats just my opinion though.