[Krazy_glu3]

I would definitely want someone to tell me that my guy was doing stuff like that. I was actually told he was planning on doing stuff, get this, by the woman's husband. He told me. It led to a whole **** storm, but that was after YEARS of 'it wont happen again'. So this is probably just his first thing. I would want to know right away so I know Im not wasting my time on someone who is going out with other women. I never believe the 'I was drunk' line. Never have, never will. He was telling his friends so he knew what he did. If he was a real man he wouldve told her and tried to work things out, but now he's hiding it which to me seems like he knew what he was doing and it trying to keep it a secret.
Like Snerg said, what if he picked something up and gives it to her!? Thats not fair to someone who is committed to a relationship. I dont like the whole 'just dont tell'. Shoot.. if it were me I'd want someone to tell me. I might be the only person like that. Getting that vibe from these comments. He made a bad mistakes and needs to deal with the consequences.