[Emswifty]

I'm actually hoping this is a troll but if it. Isn't... Why did she need to go to the bathroom in the first place? The same reason you, and everyone else, does! Troll or no troll - your girlfriend should call it quits and find someone who isn't horrible.

[KMonte85]

Total abuse? Why do you claim that? Why do you believe what i did was so out of line?

I just thought that her behavior earlier that day was totally uncalled for (too long to get into in this post) and based on that i thought (and still do think) that she didn't deserve to take her dump until we got home.

Why was that so out of line? Not trying to argue, just want to know why

I fail to see why you are still having trouble understanding this. Based on the title of your thread, you are already questioning if this situation was "cruel or funny" So why are you now acting shocked that all responses point to cruel?

It was out of line because it was abuse, plain and simple as that. There is not better way to Did you know that the same thing you did to your girlfriend in the car (not allowing her to relieve herself) is also a punishments rendered to Prisoners of War who have been captures by the enemy during war? Think about it.. how EXTREME to do that to someone over an argument of all things.

**IF** this story is true, what you did was completely hateful. Your response to an argument was to cause physical pain and humiliation to a person you're supposed to love and care for (whether you're still upset about an argument or not). If you truly believe this is was a warranted response to being angry, you need to speak with a counselor to get your anger, aggression, and extreme escalation under control.

So, tell me, do you still have a girlfriend?

[Claret]

ok, lets get past the bull here and tell it like it really is. It was hateful and mean, demeaning, abusive and good for her for finally letting it go in your car. I hope the aroma stays with you for a while because the truth is you could have seriously harmed her by not letting her go. If she had been constipated for a few days as you said, she was already backed up. Blockages of the colon can cause ruptures and can cause herniations which can burst. Fecal matter is deadly and she could have developed sepsis. This is a condition in which infection can travel throughout the entire body and people can die from it. You were mean spirited, spiteful and adolescent.

[Guest]

I fail to see why you are still having trouble understanding this. Based on the title of your thread, you are already questioning if this situation was "cruel or funny" So why are you now acting shocked that all responses point to cruel?

It was out of line because it was abuse, plain and simple as that. There is not better way to Did you know that the same thing you did to your girlfriend in the car (not allowing her to relieve herself) is also a punishments rendered to Prisoners of War who have been captures by the enemy during war? Think about it.. how EXTREME to do that to someone over an argument of all things.

****IF**** this story is true, what you did was completely hateful. Your response to an argument was to cause physical pain and humiliation to a person you're supposed to love and care for (whether you're still upset about an argument or not). If you truly believe this is was a warranted response to being angry, you need to speak with a counselor to get your anger, aggression, and extreme escalation under control.

So, tell me, do you still have a girlfriend?

OK, so you say what I did to her was cruel, and yes, maybe some might say that, but it bring in response to her bad behavior, I fail to see how it could be considered so bad.

Do you REALLY think it was that bad that she couldn't go #2 for three hours?

OK, maybe not the most pleasant thing, but for her to have to hold it for a few hrs shouldn't have been such a big deal for her and she should have waited till we got home to use the toilet in the proper way instead of making a mess like she did. I mean whats the big deal having to wait a few more hrs......seems like one ought to have a bit thicker skin in this situation.

If she had been constipated for a few days as you said, she was already backed up. Blockages of the colon can cause ruptures and can cause herniations which can burst. Fecal matter is deadly and she could have developed sepsis. This is a condition in which infection can travel throughout the entire body and people can die from it. You were mean spirited, spiteful and adolescent.

This can't possibly be true......

Sure, if she couldn't go for a few weeks, then maybe so, but just for 3 days, C'mon.

[Claret]

Yes, for just 3 days.

[rcoreyus]

The real point you are missing is that you have no right to "punish" your partner in any way. You only have the right to leave the relationship if you do not like the things she does.

[Guest]

Ughhh.....I give up.........

None of you seem to understand what I am saying.

[Pollon]

I think we understand perfectly. You think that retaliation against your partner is an acceptable way to deal with your hurt feelings. If your girlfriend agrees, she'll stay with you'll deserve each other.

[rcoreyus]

There is a big difference between understanding and agreeing. You asked, we answered. The internet is big, if you look around enough you will find people who will support absolutely any opinion - including yours, but that doesn't make it right.

[jns]

MS, in general, I would quit interacting with the person who did what you described.