[vw95]

So been long time since been on. Life is a trillion times better since I was last on. Depression conquered and I'm in an AMAZING relationship now. I love this man to bits. Imso stinking happy. But needed some tips. Had our first date I guess could call it a few weeks ago. We both have busy schedules so don't get to see each other as often as wed like but we make it work. And its going well despite that difficulty. So next month I planned a three day two night weekend with him. I wanna make it fun and enjoyable and show how much I love him. So we planned get hotel and spend two nights together like I mentioned. Besides the obvious that happens when spending nights together what can I do to make it enjoyable I've never had a date night more or less a two night sleep over before.
I'd thought of candles he is the romantic type. And some glow in dark jars for kicks. Lol. I got some sexytreats planned to suprise him...(imma suck at it never done it before therefore can I ask for polite advice on how to do good lap dance...) Two yr relationship second time being able to spend decent amount of time together more then an hr so I really want to make it an enjoyable weekend for us. Tips?? Ideas???

[jen1447]

Hey, you say you love this guy to bits and it's amazing, that's all good but your first date was a few weeks ago? Take it slow - at least the head-over-heels part.

As for ideas, lap dances - there should be no 'technique' for this. If there is you'll just look like a stripper lol, and you don't want that. I wouldn't so much give him a lap dance as just crawl all over him. The motion between two people should always be spontaneous, so don't plan anything, just tune into him and go with the flow. Have fun.

[atskitty2]

I'm confused...was your first date a few weeks ago or is this a two year relationship?
Regardless, probably anything you do will please your man. He will be appreciative of any effort you make.
One thought is, don't make it too elaborate or complicated that you lose focus because of all the prep and wanna make it just right. Sometimes the best time is just 2 people who want nothing more than some private time to reconnect. Everything is perfect when the focus is each other.
Good luck and keep us posted!

[vw95]

True I hadn't thought of that. Thanks!!
Eh yes it's complicated. We've been friends for four years and had a long distance relationship for two years. We'd Skype and everything else to keep in touch. So we basically friends who had interest but werent officially dating becuase of circumstances. And every time we planned to do something together circumstances would bud in n the plan would fall thru. Both Of us in school and lived two hrs a part for a while then he moved closer so we could have a better chance so only recently been able to work it out now to see each other since now I have a car so yes last month was first time seeing each other in two years and it was like it hadnt been that long we just picked up like we'd always seen each other. Bizarre ik n most ppl say don't trust that but uk we aren't typical couples n we've waited two years for our circumstances to work so we could date officially. We have a good strong commitment for each other. So there no trust issues between us just because long distance don't mean need to take it slow we know each other well went to school together in high school. And we both know each others limits. We arent jumpig into sex or nothing just now able to hang out together. So it's all good there. But good point I won't plan stuff good to be spontaneous. Thanks!!