[edlyn78]

Hi everyone,

Would like some opinions.

My hubby has a friend whose girlfreind and I met thru him. I won't regard her as my best friend, but I like her(she was also one of my bridemaids).
The story is her boyfriend(my hubby's friend) is cheating on her for a while now. They do have a baby(2 yrs) together. The 'other' girlfriend recently had a mc.
I know (thru ex) how it feels to be cheated on, the pain, arguments etc.
Do I tell her or not????????

Thanx.

[metalbudderfly]

hey there edlyn78,
well this is kind of a hard one here. i personally would not get myself stuck in the middle of this mess. i know she is your friend but as you stated not a best friend. i'm sure she will eventually find out on her own or from someone else. it always seems to happen that way. i know the pain of being cheated on it really does not feel so hot. i think if you get involved in this your hubby might lose a friend over this and also get your hubby in the middle of this also. in turn it can cause arguments between you and your hubby. it could have a really bad outcome. i say leave it alone and it will manifest itself.

[commonsense]

Hi everyone,

Would like some opinions.

My hubby has a friend whose girlfreind and I met thru him. I won't regard her as my best friend, but I like her(she was also one of my bridemaids).
The story is her boyfriend(my hubby's friend) is cheating on her for a while now. They do have a baby(2 yrs) together. The 'other' girlfriend recently had a mc.
I know (thru ex) how it feels to be cheated on, the pain, arguments etc.
Do I tell her or not????????

Thanx.

I agree. You should stay out of this. The truth always comes out. I was in this situation and a few months later the girl found out on her own. When you tell they don't really believe you. They believe it more when they see it for themselves.

[sourpuss]

If a friend of mine knew I was being cheated on I would hope that they would tell me. My best advice would be to have your husband talk to him and tell him that he has to come clean with his girlfriend.

[edlyn78]

She knowns!!!!!!!!!!
She visited me last Saturday and I felt so bad when she talked about the whole issue and how she found out, how hurt she feels and that the guy was just wasting her time.

Thanks for all your comment.

[JubesInquest]

I knew this young lady and she had the same problem; her only exception was that she was married.

She felt her husband was cheating on her, but she wanted someone to say something and confirm what she felt.
She wanted to know what were the "pros" and "cons" of the situation.

I felt like this:

If I tell her and she goes back and confronts the man, and he convinces her that she's WRONG and he's NOT cheating (even though he is) and he says, "Stop listening to your 'friends' " then she'll be angry at the me for telling her.

If I don't tell her and let her find out on her own, I won't be in the middle of her and her spouse's confrontation or disagreement; hence, I won't be "blamed" for any break-up of the 2, either.