[Noone12345]

Does anyone know a way to find out without being intrusive? Or continually asking? I know thats asking for alot because theres never one right answer. I just want to settle this feeling and i still want this relationship to work.

[amy40]

see my revised second post above

[Noone12345]

If i ask him that and he says yes he feels like its bossing but still denys it im not sure what to do because what if hes still lying. He knows im just trying to fish for the truth. And if he says he has watched it im stuck too. He told me to stop asking all the time and he feels like im trying to get a negative reaction but he says there isnt one. He says he hasnt done it because he knows i dont like it and he respects me. He told me in his past before me he used to like watching it and that it isnt a problem to stop because of me. I just for some reason cant let it go.

[Noone12345]

He pretty much already answered that because he said hes doesnt have a problem not watching it and respects me. He said hes not addicted to it or doesnt need to watch it.

[amy40]

ok, all those answers by him seem reasonable

it seems he's lost your trust and it's going to take a while to get your trust back

[Noone12345]

Yeah i just wish there was some way to know if what hes actually saying is the truth.

[Popcorn&Candy]

I'm afraid Stillness is right: you can't expect honesty if you choose a dishonest partner. He is a liar and nothing will change that. You have to decide if the pros outweigh the cons. Be brutally honest with yourself about what you're willing to accept from him and act accordingly.